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Wonderful Chico’s jacket, brand new with tags, $25 from Onenoffs charity shop.

Marina Rinaldi wool jacquard zipper skirt from Vinnies.

MySize cami 99cents from ebay.

You may have read my last post on an incident in a charity shop in Sydney recently where my donation of a dress was taken and tried on immediately in front of me. I wrote about it here. This is not a common occurrence anymore as so many of the charity shops have become more corporatised. Vinnies in particular is very professional in that respect…in the city anyway I can not speak to the way things are done in the country where there is usually only a paid manager and volunteers.

I have had so many great experiences in charity shops helping people with choices and oftentimes doing repairs for people who cannot normally afford a dressmaker. Not to mention the fabulous clothing and antiques I have found! But like so many things in life when something does go wrong it really leaves a sour taste and impacts the way I perceive the charity and their shop and ultimately how much I donate and buy.

Obviously I have an issue with abuse of donations. To me it is dishonest and does not honor the intent of the donor. I consider selling things at too low a price an abuse of donations as well. I am not alone, MARY PORTIAS, who instituted changes in Save the children shops in Britain said herself that she had not given any of her own designer clothing to charity shops because they would not know what to do with them.

What really galls in Australia anyway is that there is nowhere to go with complaints or incidents. Overseas there are many Charity Oversight Committees, etc. Britain also has a Association of Charity Shops where good things and bad can be reported. Oftentimes it is enough that one has been seen to be heard. As you know I am still in the middle of the VINNIES thing. The bullying issue is so pervasive in VINNIES that the head office formed an investigative committee but even they cannot effect an apology or make changes. They can make suggestions I believe….the charity shops are only one arm of VINNIES  which is a huge retailer in NSW …on par with WOOLWORTHS I believe. So they have a huge task ahead of them where the culture of bullying is endemic.

The ONE NOFFS shops which are under the direct supervision of RUPERT NOFFS likewise have a problem during the week anyway in that apart from a select few ladies they have largely well intentioned but mostly unprofessional volunteers who often when I am there spend the entire time checking out clothing for themselves. Yes in front of me…you would think they would have enough downtime that they could at least do it when the shop is empty. Rupert is so busy in my opinion running new venture after new venture that he has let the charity shops that already exist slide. Unless of course there is a television crew or newspaper reporter around. When I first met him he was excited about the shops and the opening of the new shop on Elizabeth Street however as far as I can recall the warehouse was not even mentioned in the ABC Compass programme THE NEW NOFFS. Of course that could have been the way the ABC cut the show but it is interesting that the staff at the warehouse shop did not know about the programme and were most distressed to be out of the loop.

After I published my last post two days ago on the dress being tried on Rupert Noffs contacted me and asked me if I would take the post down saying “please please  please remove it it” and “it would be helpful if you did not post blogs on this”. Maybe I should not be surprised after his response to my previous email when I mentioned that the staff did not know about the COMPASS PROGRAMME. I also sent a copy to his father as I saw he was the CEO of the NOFFS FOUNDATION and was answering the commentors on the ABC website….and he is the age of a lot of the volunteers in their shop.

“Wesley doesn’t recall conversing with you. Where did you write this? I hope not on a public domain. This will put a lot of stress on my family. More stress than there already is.”

So I am left with getting the word out on my own blog so that people are aware of what happens to their donations and also to people who try to bring attention to something….for the public good. I think that is what galls me the most about a lot of charities…not just shops attached to them…transparency and accountability. I would appreciate any ideas on how to go about getting some kind of Committee or Association going and who to contact about it.

And this is what bloggers do…. get the word out…it is not spreading hate as Rupert Noffs seemed to think when he said in his email to me.

“lets spread love not hate…we are a charity”



This week has been a full one with lots of shopping, coffee drinking and catching up with friends. I now have an assistant, Daniel, to help me with my postage system and other things. He helps me after school one day a week and I am hoping  that in time I will be able to offer him more work. We like to joke that I am Meryl Streep in The Devil Wears Prada and he is Ann Hathaway but he is far better dressed than her character and though I adore that hairstyle  my hair just will not go that glorious shade of grey! But I am as well dressed! I think this bag is a little like something Meryl’s character would have used don’t you? I found this for two dollars at a charity shop this week! Madness!

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The shoes were found at Vinnies last year…they are by JIGSAW and divine.

EMBROIDERED SHOES

A week or so ago I found a mannequin at Vinnies which has made everything I do so much more enjoyable. The clothes look so much better…especially the  jewellery. I am having so much fun draping necklaces over her to go with various outfits. Daniel is also an awfully good op shopper and is proving invaluable in double checking garments for flaws etc which is a big help as Vinnie’s have had a lot of 50% off sales lately and it has been hard to check everything I buy as garments can be quite heavy when there are lots of them draped over one’s arm!

zoe

This is one of the outfits I bought on a 50% off day recently. It is by Rodney Clark, a top Australian designer and has a chiffon outer layer with masses of flounces and it is is lined with taffeta!! Incredible!  I did not know that Gordon Smith clothing was under the RODNEY CLARK umbrella but I guess I should not be surprised as the quality is amazing.

I am also in the middle of hanging all my gorgeous ebay garments onto these

my size

multi purpose hangers which I purchased from Howard’s Storage World. The hangers are great but the online service leaves something to be desired as my son also ordered some dvd storage towers and one was severely damaged and he is still waiting for a pick up well over a fortnight or so later. Shame on you for your poor customer service Howard’s Storage World, he has been a great customer and has been treated shabbily. Will let you know what develops.

Update..the next day we were contacted about a pickup and drop off a new dvd case by someone at Howard’s Storage World online so my son’s dvd collection should be sorted!

 

 

Popped up yesterday to Westfield Bondi Junction to meet a lovely lady who bought one of my pieces of LIBERTY by ROBERT GORDON china. I started collecting this set around my 50th birthday …so almost five years ago. I asked DAVID JONES if they would still have it for a few seasons and was assured they would but as always next season there were a few rogue pieces and that was it. So I was stuck with a few pieces and I had been so looking forward to collecting it but apart from my local coffee/homewares shop and occasionally at Vinnies I have not seen it again. It is even scarce on ebay so I am pleased that a piece is going to someone who really wants it.

What is it with these places putting out new ranges…..or several new ranges of china every year? If you cannot buy it all then, including spares, you are really stuck. Not everyone can buy entire sets all at once and like me not everyone wants to…where is the joy in collecting in that?  My son had a similar experience with a gorgeous coloured willow pattern which was on a huge display in the David Jones city store next to the Portmeirion. When he started collecting it every time he went shopping he asked if it would still be available in future. You can guess what happened, he is stuck with one serving of everything and a strangely untraceable brand, PALATE. I mean try googling palate…its ludicrous!

 

While I was at WESTFIELD I took some time to think about the poor Jewish man who took his life there a few weeks ago. I was also thinking about the appalling response to the tragedy by a member of their upper echelon.  It is in the newspaper reports what Mark Ryan, Westfield Group Director of Corporate Affairs, said about the gawkers …and not moving the gawkers along or shutting the centre. Heaven forbid that someone’s death might get in the way of anyone spending a dollar….or thousand.  Apparently lots of people were filming and texting as I imagine it was unusual to see a fully Orthodox Jewish person in such a situation. Maybe they were interested in seeing how the police handled it. A young chap who caught the whole thing on camera put it on Youtube because he was so appalled by the apathy of the staff. Not the …splatter…but the awful last minutes of this man’s life and the camera person clearly asking why Westfield were not moving the public out of the way. Do pay careful attention to the comments on the first link I have highlighted here…among these comments are those by workers and others who witnessed the event.

 

While we are talking about Westfield and David Jones, good on the ex CEO of DJ’s resigning today for “inappropriate conduct toward a female staff member” at a function. As regular readers of my blog know, not all companies admit when there is any form of harassment and this guy named and shamed himself. Perhaps it was all about to come out and he got in ahead of time but we know that is not always the case. Some companies turn it around and blame the  victim.  Well done David Jones and let us hope the young lady manages to go back to work and that her case is managed well by her lawyers. Another mistake we made apparently…..not getting lawyers involved before we made our complaints.

 

laura in stitches

Have been super busy selling especially this past week and am almost through my many sizes of clothing which I have had stored in vain hope of getting into them one day! I am so pleased that so many women are wearing and loving my  clothing. This stunning outfit above is a mixture of LAURA ASHLEY USA and STITCHES AUSTRALIA. During the five years I have had this skirt I only wore it once and since I bought the jacket earlier this year my friend borrowed the outfit for an event so it is almost new. Silk and cotton the jacket is fabulous quality as to be expected of LAURA ASHLEY and the skirt is just that little bit different…I think the outfit works well so I am selling it as a set.

I found lots of great things in Vinnies today..it was 50% off clothing which was great and I also bought some fabulous beaded jewellery to gift with my clothing sales…yeah! Ted Noffs was also a success as I found my friend a lovely HOT OPTIONS jacket to go with a PER UNA skirt which arrived today from ebay.uk! I also pointed out to the volunteers at One Noffs some pieces by a designer [VICKY VALE] which I felt would work well in their more exclusive designer store. I found several pieces and they are very current, Victorian Gothic style in black velvet, yum!

Had an interesting experience in Vinnies today….after having such wonderful and positive experiences on ebay it was a real eye opener as to perhaps why so many people are going the ebay route. As you know I have had a few problems before...only ever in a particular store ..usually I prefer to encourage and praise the workers but after my husband’s case of workplace bullying was found in the favour of his supervisor and my own complaint was on balance disbelieved I guess I simply cannot take any crap from them anymore.

I went into the store with intent of finding some plus sized clothes…a mammoth job as most clothes there are in standard sizes and it takes forever to go through all of the ladies and also the mixed clothes downstairs. Out of the whole store there may be around five  plus sized items…and the store has two levels of women’s clothing….that is how big a job it is.  Also problematic are the racks which are stuffed to the max with clothing…one rack over another one and the racks are full of clothing on really flimsy hangers which constantly snap in one’s hand. So after checking out a third of the downstairs I popped upstairs to check the ladies shirts and jackets etc. By then my hands had gone.

A little explanation…due to my silly arthritis and accompanying stenosis of the spinal column in my cervical and thoracic vertebrae I have trouble raising my arms above waist height …my hands go all pins and needles …and they hurt…and then they go numb and I  start to drop things. I dropped several tops which I was buying but I left them at my feet as I knew I would only drop them again and I was still looking through the lower rack.  A man I took to be a volunteer …he was wearing an apron and was muttering to himself as he went through the store  repeatedly….I kept getting out of his way as there is no room to manouvre in this shop anymore. Anyway he came upstairs just as I dropped the shirts and I heard him say…as he looked at the things at my feet…okay just drop them there ..that’s the way to do it…or words to that effect.

I must say I was chagrined and mortified to be spoken to like that and when a few minutes later a worker I know came upstairs and asked if something was wrong I said yes…. I did not like being spoken to by the volunteer that way. I said I felt he was a little unusual and had been rude. A booming what has this particular volunteer done came from behind me and  bugger me if he was not directly behind me …totally invading my body space and I felt inappropriately questioning me about what I was discussing with the worker. Well, not one to back down, not after our previous experiences….I repeated I did not like to be spoken to like that. He said he was telling someone else to leave donations somewhere……even though he was looking at me and I saw no other person…although there could have been one….I did not see one however.

Well then I apologised and said I was sorry …that it was bad timing that it happened as he said it to a customer but he was very shirty and kept saving aggressively…I am so over this …it is gone it is nothing etc etc. Well it was not over as I felt both  my body space and my disability had been poorly treated. I went downstairs and saw him chatting to the workers on the cash register and he then went upstairs again brushing past me in quite an unusual manner.  I asked the workers if the manager was in and they said they would get her. She came down and apologised and said something like …you know we have problems with some people not being able to talk to people properly. I said …yes but I felt that you should know as if it happened to me it could happen to others. I also explained a little about my health and how difficult it is to shop there since the new overstocking of the racks came in. She said to let her know if they could help get anything down for me…which was sweet but not really the point.

So all in all a good day as my clothing order from the US came in the post…trust me you have never seen the like of these jackets etc…silk and embossed, embroidered or quilted! The whole experience was pleasant even picking up the parcels! I did however find a stunning Liz Claiborne handbag and two lovely shirts for myself in Vinnies….I think it was worth it…..I hope so anyway…it just leaves  a nasty taste in the mouth. Where is Mary Queen of Charity Shops when you need her?

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