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Monthly Archives: August 2009

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I have returned to sewing with a vengeance. Here is my latest tote WIP. At the moment I am ready to quilt the bag and handles. Tonight I found the wadding I needed in the garage and as soon as I finish sewing the binding down on Dragonfly Horses I will start on the quilting. Am thinking pink perle cotton in a largish stitch.

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In the background are our new Marie Claire mix and match dishes. My nerve damage was affecting my hands so badly we had to get a different dinner set. I had been using Corelle the shatterproof servingware but when I dropped the dishes etc, which is often, the things exploded upwards and remnants richocheted almost blinding me on several occasions. So the solution, mix and match porcelain which is a reasonable weight and does not explode when dropped.

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The fabric I used for this bag is Moda Soiree which I won from Miss Mabel Studios some months ago in a giveaway. It was a charm pack and easily went together in this bag as the work of choosing co-ordinating fabrics was already done for me. Unlike the Marie Claire seringware which took two shopping trips …one to the city and one to Bondi Junction!

This bag is for a silent auction at my friend’s son’s high school in October, the bag should be just right for Summer 09.

Almost there!
Here is a photo taken back in June when I had finished quilting the innermost part of Jan’s future grand daughter’s quilt. Then for some mysterious reason I decided to chain stitch…embroider circles all around the reverse border!

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Those embroidered circles took a while but really make it a little different so it was worthwhile.

Now I am on the final stretch…handstitching the binding…this is my favourite part of a quilt. Rest assured many thoughts and prayers will be going into the final stitching. If I really were magical..I would be stitching magical spells into this quilt…of enchantment and protection for this little baby. As it is I will be praying for her and also for Jan as she prepares for a massive operation on her leg. Please spare a moment for her as she prepares for a hugely time intensive and undoubtedly painful operation. But I am reassured by my knowledge of Jan’s inner strength…she survived  Chondrosarcoma and now she will get through this difficult stage of her life. Maybe she will even write a book about her trials and tribulations…I would definitely buy a copy.

For the quilters out there the horses fabric is by Laurel Burch who suffered herself greatly with an illness of the bones all her life..I find her fabric to be so mystical and love the way she incorperated Native American art with Aztec and Egyptian…she was remarkable and I think Jan would have liked her a lot!

Most of my readers remember what happened to me last December when I tried to do the right thing by the charity my husband works for. The whole story is here and in these other posts. I made a formal  complaint in April this year about the person who treated me like a naughty schoolgirl and  heard nothing …apart from a few weak responses to my emails asking when my case would be heard…. until the other day when I sent an email asking why I had not heard anything from them. I also told them then that I have sent everything to The Sydney Morning Herald as one of their journalists is interested in letting the public know about the “poisonous” way the Society is run.

I heard back later that day and was informed that on balance what I said was not believed. Though the person who sent me the email said that he was keen to mend fences and restore my previous worthwhile relationship  with the Society. What previous worthwhile relationship? If I am not believed now why was I believed when it was the rank and file that I reported before for wrongdoing? Why is it that when I report a more senior manager that I am not believed? Why is it the responsibility of the customer to tell the staff that they are not allowed to give valuable donations away for free? Why is it not the responsibility of the Society and its staff…why was the onus put on me to not accept what was freely given to me?

I have a past history of reporting wrongdoing in the Randwick Centre and I was believed and thanked for those reports…even though as my past blog posts show I was treated appallingly afterwards by staff who held it against me…to the extent that I could not shop there for much of  last year. Of course my relationship has also included praise, support and encouragement of the workers and shoppers there. Only today I was asked for advice as to various shoppers needs because of my dressmaking experience. I happily spend time there helping the people who have no clue how the staff and family of staff are treated.

Until now I have not disclosed the name of the charity but I am not held to a contract as is my husband to do no harm to the Society..because believe me they have done great harm to me and to my family through both their actions and their inaction for months and now their blatant disregard toward a valued customer and senior employee’s wife. This is inexcusable and I will not let it rest.

I have asked for the name of a more senior person and for the committee which oversees charities to investigate this matter. Of course I do not expect to hear back from them…that is their modus operandi after all…ignore and hope it goes away…or perhaps they will take the more agressive stance as they did some months ago of telling me not to discuss the case in the store. Quite a harsh email especially considering I am not employed by them and they were not even acting on my case then.

Speaking of my husband, my oh so proud of his honesty and his sense of righteousness as a Christian husband who has worked there for ten years…his Workplace Grievance of Bullying also was not believed. The person who gave a written statement declaring that she had witnessed incidents of bullying in his shop for two years or more was not even contacted…so perhaps she was disbelieved too. What is it with this Catholic Charity that they disbelieve the very people who have been so loyal to them over the years? Surely compassion and trust should be a cornerstone of a Christian charity.

My husband is now on Long Service Leave, he is in the UK and does not know of what is happening to me…I will keep it from him. He you see had a near nervous breakdown four months ago due to the pressures at the Charity over the past two or more years. That is why I have not been posting much here…this was my refuge against the injustices of the world and my creative place but these four nearly five months have taken that away from me. I did not write about what was going on due to loyalty to the greater good the charity does with the poor and disenfranchised but not writing about it and dealing with my husband regressing to a frightened little boy whenever the phone rang took away my creative drive and I have been unable to complete any sewing really in this time.

So they have harmed me and they have harmed my family…you may remember my son heard me weeping when I was chastised by two senior members of Vinnies when I reported the giving away of donations. After the treatment in the store when I reported wrongdoing before it was too much for me and the very fact that they were turning the whole thing around. Well that was nothing compared with what was written about me in my husband’s Worker’s Comp Insurance file. The person who heard my husband’s Workplace Grievance said in April that they had removed all obstacles to him returning to work so it had to be pressure from me that was keeping him away. The person who scolded me said they had a problem in the store with me discussing Society business…the opposite was true as they hounded me about my husband and how he was doing at his store. She also said she could not understand why I bothered him about such a thing as the donations when he was clearly grieving his mothers health. Well that is the first time she mentioned his mothers state of health since he returned in December….she chastised him the day he returned to work about the my accepting the donation although she denies it now.

St Vincent de Paul has had a lot of bad press in the last year…you can read about their cavaleer treatment of their volunteers and staff  here and here. And my husband’s support person Les had a battle with them himself here.

I guess that is what is the most upsetting about this…my tender care of my husband over the almost four month period he could not work was what ultimately got him back to work…he did not want to go back…why would he want to put himself in harm’s way? He may be precious at the moment but he has good survival instincts…but he is too trusting and I do fear for him when he returns. So now you are up to date with my happenings…I have acheived very little except my husband’s sanity and my own. I have read some books…mostly I have played Farmtown on Facebook…its been a lifesaver as it is so mindless and one meets some lovely people.

Much like yourselves only one gets to chat while one works!

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Electric Blue Jewelled Bug Necklace, Liberty of London

Electric Blue Jewelled Bug Necklace, Liberty of London

Price £175.00

Electric Blue Jewelled Bug Necklace.

Isn’t this just divine?View the full Liberty of London jewellery coll

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Liberty Log Cabin

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Above: Circles 1,  Liberty logs and the absolutely stunning Moonflowers quilt which is in Kaffe’s Kaleidascope of Quilts.

One of the most delightfully encouraging and generous quilters I have met on flickr is Ruth Eglinton. Ruth, who used to be an editor with the UK magazine Fabrications, now works for Rowan as their technical editor. Ruth explains below in her own words how her present dream job came about.

My mother was an accomplished dressmaker and I recall having many pretty clothes as a child and being the youngest of four I also had my share of hand me downs but that’s fine if they’re handmade and lovely! I recently helped my sister Clare finish a hexagon patchwork that she started when she was about twelve. It was full of fabrics from our childhood clothes and it was a delight to see and remember while stitching it, it even has a small brown grease stain where my father used it as an oil rag! I ‘m sure it was a mistake!

My first job was in banking, and my ability with numbers, computers and organisation was born there. After getting married we were one of the first families to have a home computer as my husband Andrew is an engineer and he could see the future lay in computers. He worked for himself and I ‘did the books’ while looking after our three children.

I took up dressmaking for my little girls and it was during a shopping trip that I met my great friend Maggie Wise. Maggie was the catalyst that launched me into the quilting world.

After a while I discovered that the ‘mathematics of quiltmaking’ is my real flair. I began designing my own quilts and writing the patterns, drawing the diagrams on my home computer. As my children grew I worked for Maggie at her shop, Sunflower Fabrics writing patterns and maintaining her website .

My new career in technical editing and illustrating began almost by chance. Maggie had a customer in the shop one day who wanted a quilt made based on an antique star quilt and Maggie suggested that I would be ideal to make it. We then discovered that the lady was Linda Parkhouse the editor of a new British quilting magazine called “Fabrications”.

Linda commissioned me to make the quilt and asked if I was able to do the instructions too, which I did. She then came to me and asked if I could draw up the instructions for two other quilts going in the first issue of the magazine. By Issue 3 I was Technical Editor, drawing diagrams and writing and checking  instructions for most of the projects. I did that job for two years. Linda was also involved with Rowan and put my name forward when their technical person said she did not have the tim e to do another of Kaffe Fassett’s patchwork books. So I became their technical editor working along with Pauline Smith, who stitches the majority of Kaffe’s Quilts for Rowan.

I get very high resolution  photographs, sketches and hand drawn diagrams to work from, and occasionally, if necessary, I get  the quilt to work from. I draw the diagrams and write the instructions for each quilt then export them into a format the setters can read, all a bit technical. I have been doing this since Patchwork and Quilting Book 4…..and have just completed book 11, wow 7 years. I’ll be starting book 12 in the autumn and I’m currently piecing a quilt designed to go in the book, Kaffe is very gracious including one of my creations sometimes.

Kaffe, Brandon, Pauline and Liza (Prior Lucy) are lovely people and it’s a dream job I have!”

Below is the latest quilt which Ruth has up on flickr, its absolutely delightful, much like Ruth. Thank you so much Ruth for filling us in on your back story, you deserve much success as you are as talented as you are generous…and you have more of those qualities than most. I think that is one of the reasons behind your success….your generosity of spirit has attracted people and opportunities …and your talent was the icing on the cake!

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Ruth can be found on Etsy here

and her patterns are available through her good friend Maggie’s shop Sunflower Fabrics.com

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