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Someone is having a little snooze before their big night…Merry Christmas everyone

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We still have yet to find our Christmas star for our tree but have finished the decorating now after popping up to Bondi Junction to get more hot pink, lime green and turquoise ornaments to go with our bejewelled theme. I have almost finished making a bejewelled garland from tinsel and baubles as well.

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Yesterday Ollie the toddler from the flat opposite popped in when his mum picked up something from our fridge and as they are going to New Zealand for Christmas I gave him the bag with his Nativity wall hanging which his mum loved as he is too young for it. He liked the finger puppets too but best of all for him was the tree as he does not have one up what with going away and all….so he had the best fun with the glass ornaments which when he batted them looked like a spinning top! He cackled with glee and went at it again..this was after carrying around the animals from our Willow Tree Nativity scene…those are some form of pottery!!

His mother Debbie was a tad nervous by then but the absolute best place for him was when he discovered CJ’s room. He just stood and gawked at the wonder that is his room, I guess he realised that it was a boy’s room…even if an adult boy ….his expression was priceless. It was as if he were in Santa’s Grotto or Aladdin’s Cave or maybe Hambly’s toyshop in London. I also found the way to get him out of our place as Debbie was a nervous wreck in case he broke anything by then …I scooped him up and naturally he leaned straight towards her….worked like a charm although near the door he realised he had been conned and started screaming to stay.  Next year I will have the nativity on a removable stand so it can be taken out of the room before he comes so his mum can relax more!

In front of the fireplace

This week something new to my blog .. where I highlight some of the wonderful work being done by some of the members of my flickr groups.

The other day I spotted the most marvelous chair which has been completely changed with the addition of  stunning fabric by Anna Maria Horner. This is achievable for the technically minded sewer although the choice of artwork and the way they are displayed is pure Bethany of Country Peacock on flickr. Really well done Bethany!

I have had a talk with a lawyer friend of mine and he said that when I was given the bag of fabric it was legally a gift free and clear so I was within my legal rights to take it and keep it if so desired. So obviously there was no way that what was said to me in that shop was appropriate or even based on legal principles. As long as I know that  I think I can live with this now, without an apology and as long as my husband is not brought into it or mistreated. I know I cannot win anything here without my husband suffering for it and this is unacceptable to me. He does far more good for this charity than any other manager I believe and has even been given an entry in who’s who here for the amazing turnaround he brought to the charity’s flagship store. I am saddened deeply by this matter especially since my son saw me weeping yesterday when I heard that my husband had been spoken to  repeatedly about this matter yesterday, while I was not contacted at all. This was my issue as a customer and I feel like I was treated like a naughty and dishonest worker and then shunned. Surely if I had been seen as a customer at some stage they would have listened to what I was really saying. I did speak with the next person up the chain….who took the same tack at first, you know why did I accept it….well duh…cause they throw it away otherwise. After some discussion he said he would ensure that my husband was kept out of it…he thought he was anyway he said. I asked him after that conversation to put what he did say in writing but am not confident he will because doing so would be an admission of some sort and would really upset customers. I know better than to expect that now but my husband is really angry about how I was treated as is my son and though we cannot say much publicly about this I am not so sure CJ will keep quiet as he is a writer and is absolutely livid about this. I was even thinking of all those whistle blower cases and how they end up…we had a little taste of it today and as I have serious health issues and David is grieving about his mother’s amputation and  impossible state of health I just cannot take this any further. I am just not strong enough. thank you so much for your wonderful support…it has helped me so much to know that you too are outraged. Below is a small selection of the splendors of this fabric. There was fifty five odd metres in the end….and there was enough of the silk to make curtains and full length gowns.

Charity shop gives away over fifty metres of silk and other designer fabrics

Charity gives away over fifty metres of silk and other designer fabrics

Yesterday we had an electrical fire in our block’s communal electricity circuit box. I had trouble sleeping because our brand spanking new Vornado fan kept shutting off  …it was intermittent. I eventually got up and put the tv on for the news and it exploded …went bang anyway and all the appliances went off. I grabbed my rubber soled shoes and went downstairs to the circuit box to see if it was a fuse and saw some of my neighbours and realised it was across the whole building. While I was talking to my upstairs neighbour the whole box started flashing, then smoking…we talked…quickly …. then called the fire brigade as when we had our electrical fires in our flat the fire brigade said that the box was too dangerous to touch when there was a fire. By then though my neighbour had turned our and his electricity off but after the flashing we were too afraid to turn off any other flat’s electricity off at the box.

The fire Station is about two minutes away by road so they were there in minutes. At first they could not see what the problem was as there was no visible fire just lots of smoke. They did say though to unplug all our electrical appliances except freezers and we did that although it was too late by then for most of the people’s precious and expensive goods. While waiting for the electricians to come to the building the firemen went through the building to ensure none of our electrical goods were on fire. A lot of people had to leave to go to work including my neighbour opposite. She also wanted to get her little toddler away from the smoke. She left the dog in the unit but she told me where her spare key was kept in case the firemen had to get into her flat.  After a little while there was a second wave of smoke and my neighbour raced to get the key to the flat where the dog was by herself…we raced up and got the dog out as the smoke was quite bad by then. The poor dog was most distressed and very loving and affectionate!

The fire captain stayed with us for over an hour , he said massive amounts of power were coming into our building and we needed to find out why. He also said he would write a report stating that our fuse box is unsafe and needs to be upgraded. Something they would not do even after our two electrical fires several years ago. We have since paid to have some upgrades ourselves as our son was almost unconscious when the first fire occurred. The Energy Australia electricians were here for some hours and isolated the electricity…turned it off …and said that our body corporate would have to arrange repairs. They also said it was likely that all electrical goods in our building were fried.  As it could take hours to do the repairs and we were assured it was now safe my son and I went back to bed. Sometime over the next four hours someone came and made the repairs and when we awoke we tried to see which of our electrical items were salvagable. My son tried the tv first naturally and got a dreadful electric shock so I phoned the body corporate and they sent the electrician back out to check out each individual unit. We discovered by trial and error and another electric shock for  CJ that our appliance extension packs which have surge protectors on them were fried and were causing the shocks and we only lost those and one set of ceiling lights…we think anyway.

Our neighbours weren’t so lucky…some flats lost all their HD TV’s… some brand new and all their electrical equipment including fridges and microwaves. To top it off the body corporate and their personal contents insurance does not cover this. My neighbour upstairs lost her ducted air conditioning and all her electrical goods. At present they are trying to find a way around it. We have a few good things out of this …no one was harmed and we got to know what neighbours we can rely on and my son knows he definitely wants a dog!

Update on charity shop fiasco

Today I went into the charity shop where I asked to speak to the manager about the bag of fabrics which was given to me when I was in there last. He said he did not know anything about it and as he is getting a really bad deal from his staff since taking over we are not sure if someone is trying to set us both up ….his staff are not happy since he arrived and they have hated me since I raised this issue last time I was given bags full of perfectly good donations. He asked me if I would speak to the area manager on the phone to clear it up which I did but I do not remember if I even got that far as she basically kept saying that I was in the wrong for taking the goods out of the store and kept quoting how I had compromised myself and my husband as well. After hearing that spiel for some time I said I did not appreciate having my husband’s job being brought into this and it was surely the responsibility of the staff not to give the goods in the first place. No way … did not matter it was all about my actions and how I took them out of the store and how I did not pay until the next day…well after telling her repeatedly they would not take any money then, believe me I tried as did my husband. I then burst into tears…..something I never do. This is in front of a whole store of customers.

The manager sat me down and tried to give me water and talked me through it but I said as it stands I do not feel I can come here again and I resent what she said about my honesty. Also if I was set up or he was then I really do not feel inclined to give that store my business. I guess I was still emotional from the fire and was more upset than I had realised because my son said he knew something had happened because my face was still flushed hours after I spoke to them at the store. I sent an email expressing my distaste for the area manager’s treatment of me to her boss after I spoke to my husband and son. They are not surprised but my son said “stay out of that store mum they employ fucking crazies there”…he never wanted me to forgive them as I tried to do after the way they turned their backs on me in the store after the previous incident. So I guess you can see why I was a little bit teary?

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